Mo’Nique Molested By Brother:Mo’Nique Brother Molested Her
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Mo’Nique Molested By Brother:Mo’Nique Brother Molester Her – Mo’Nique has revealed in the October 2008 issue of Essence Magazine,that she was sexually abused by her own brother.She said:
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“I was molested by my older brother.” “And even when I confronted him and told my parents, he said I was lying, and nothing was really done.”
Mo’Nique added that her brother molested her four times over the course of four years. He often used candy to lure her into the bathroom, where much of the abuse took place, beginning when Mo’Nique was just seven.Her parents,never believed her.She explained:
“because me and my brother were both their children, and I just don’t know the kind of position they felt they were in.”“My father was very upset, but it never got mentioned again. I’ll never forget my mother saying, ‘If it’s true, it will surface again,’ and I remember thinking, ‘Why would I lie? Why is there even an if in this?’ I was angry with them for so long, because I felt as if they should have seen what was happening.”“My brother was a monster to me.”
Her brother went on to serve 15 years in prison for sexually abusing another girl and has never apologized for Mo’Nique’s sexual abuse.
-Advertisements-“He still acts like he doesn’t know what I’m talking about. So screw hurting your feelings. You need to get your feelings hurt, and you need to get some help.”
what’s really sad is not the part about her being molested, but being by her own brother. and shame on the parents when something is up like that they should have known better and not let the subject go unexplained. they could have reported him to the police and saved the other girl a chance to be molested by him.
Sad story indeed.
i think that is so wrong 4 dat 2 b her own brother it makes me sick i would never let him by any of my children or anybody i love he is a true monster 4 doin dat 2 ur own sister and the parents r monsters 2 think about that y would a 7 year old b even thinkin bout dat so they wer wrong 4 not beleaving her b-cuz if u think aboout it she was thinkin of baby dolls so 4 her 2 have that on her mine something must of been goin on dont u think mo’nique if u read this u can always forgive but u never 4 get so keep ya head up and keep doin ya thing love ya biggest fan mrsz.quona…..
Mii heart goes out to u Monique because I have been in tha same position nothing hurt worse than noone taking any consideration in tha matter that dis incident happen after begging them to do something about it !
Well Mo, looks like it did resurface, but an innocent child was abused because of it. I commend your strength because if you don’t let it out it will kill you and ruin your life. Your brother is indeed a sick man. Instead of protecting you, he hurt you.
Thanks for sharing this Mo’Nique and I pray that someone is helped and given the courage to speak out against this evil. I pray that parents start acting on their children’s behalf and stop putting their embarrassment and emotions first! May God keep His loving arms around you and others who have gone though any kind of abuse.
thatz so heartbreaking that u had 2 go threw something like that=(
shouldnt nobody during there childhood years have 2 worry about getting
sexually abused
I couldn’t help but to feel Monique’s pain becuz the same sick ridiculous thing happened to me.I know how she feels.I been there too.It’s a unexplainable feeling and its even worst to just think back on it,Jesus.But it didn’t kill us.Just keep ya head up big sis,love you!Your fan the young black beauty diva.
THIS WAS A SAD STORY THAT IREAD…….. WHATS REALLY SAD WAS BEING MOLESTED BY YOUR BROTHER
Mo’nique I am very sorry this happed to you and your mother did not think it was true, and your father did nothing . Parent should always trust her or his child, and get to the bottom of it . Your brother has to pay for his sins like we all do. Now that he was cought, what did your parent say if anything?. Your brother knows what he did if he acts like he dosen’t. Mo’nique you didn’t let this keep you down. You are a very strong woman. Stay strong.
May God Bless You and keep you strong.
I used to talk to a girl who came up to me on campus..
I stopped talking to her when she left her Myspace on at my house and I saw that she only had 1 message in her inbox from some guy who she was talking really dirty to…
So, I was signing up for classes on the last day to register.
I picked a class that she happened to be in…
So when I showed up, she was so pissed off that I was there…
She accused of Sexual Harassment…
A month later, I was found innocent by a peer jury.
I still had conversations on AIM that I printed and brought to the hearing…
It included nude photos that she sent me of herself…
It still did totally destroy my semester.
I was treated horribly.
I had 1 semester left to finish my degree too…
I decided to leave GMU after that, because of the way that the administrators treated me and also because they wanted me to pay the late fee for the class that I had to drop and take an F for, because of that foolish girl.
I ended up doing a year of back-up time for a charge I plead to a year earlier when my girlfriend’s sister at the time robbed me and set me up in a drug deal.
I was 19 when that happened, and the 3 public defenders really just spent a year trying to help convict me, because I wouldn’t snitch, because I wanted to save the relationship with the girl.
And when I signed up for that class with the girl in it… I got to go to it one time… And the class discussion was about murder… and is it ever justified…
I brought up Native Son, by Richard Wright as an example of murder sometimes being an accident based on conditions…
She out bursted “you can’t justify murder, Mickey!”
All I could say was “I wasn’t trying to justify murder…” When she got up with a red face and went to file the charge on me.
This girl told me that she had been spying on me for 2 years and wishing she was the girl I was with for those two years, no less.
Anyway… Coming from a nice guy who has always respected women. Who has done time for women… Who didn’t even kiss a girl ’til he was 16…
I send you healing energy and a lot of Love.
I really am sensitive to how much society neglects children in general…
I almost married a woman who had a 10 year old boy and an 8 year old girl…
Having been molested at the age of 4, and raped at the age for 14… It was almost impossible for me to address the deviousness that was forming in her children as a result of not being looked at properly by their own parents…
Sigh…
Again, I send you + energy. Stay strong and continue to speak up to help elucidate important matters in our community.
Blessings,
M
You don’t need to post that, it just struck a personal note with me.
Do you forgive him? I mean, I know that we are all supposed to forgive, but this seems a little hard!!! Such a sad story. I mean its your own brother, your blood. I would say that a brother is supposed to love you, be there for you, stick up for you. Dont you agree
something else that really hurts and I’m about to go into couseling about…how dirty I feel for being molested by an older cousin and never telling because it felt good.until this day we have never spoke on it but I truly believe that it is the basis for my life taking such a negative turn.This bastsard still comes around and is able to look me in the face like it’s never happened.
when i read stuff like this it makes me sick to my stomach. It’s her brother tho! its just so unexpected.Im glad she is able to over come that. I just want to know why. why put people in those terrible conditions? why make they hurt? it makes no sense
I know how Mo feelz, i was molsted and rape by 2 of my older brothers from when i was 5 to 14…. it the worst feeling ever, i would take death any day rather then living through this pain. i’m now 16 and my life is just totally messed! i havent told anyone about it and theres days when i just want to give up on life all together, .. I wish i was strong as Mo!, shes a Super Strong women for being able to live through the pain. she is a successful and amazing women.. i admire her to the fullest
I AM SORRY MO HAD SUCH BAD EXPERIENCES BUT ALL FAMILY LOVE ISNT BAD. I GREW UP WITH 2 BROTHERS AND 8 SISTERS BACK IN LATE 60s AND MID 70s AND IT WASNT DISCUSSED OR DONE AROUND EACH OTHER, AT LEAST NOT KNOWINGLY,I HAVE HEARD AND SEEN SEXUAL FAMILY RELATIONS GOING ON IN MY HOUSE.I WAS 5 AND MY YOUNGEST SISTER WAS 3.MY OLDEST BROTHER WAS 17 AND SISTER WAS13. MY FATHER SEXED ALL MY SISTERS TILL HE DIEDWHEN I WAS 8. MY OLDEST BROTHER WAS NOW MAN OF THE HOUSE AND STARTED SEXING MOTHER AND OLDER SISTERS. GRANDDAD LOVED MY YOUNGER SISTERS/TOUCHING THEM BETWEEN THEIR LEGS AND RUBBING HIS THING ON THEM UNTIL COME.WE WERE AND STILL IS ALOVING FAMILY AND ARE ALL MONEY MAKING PROFESSIONALS
to lost sole
Keep your head up…just have faith and things will work out. The same thing happened to me with 2 of my brothers and 1 of my brother’s physical abused me daily (so i had 3 brothers giving me hell) so I know what your going through cause i felt the same way u did at your age….but with GOD and some therapy, i’m able to make it all these years. Now it never leaves but once you know how to deal with it life will get better. I will keep u in my prays.
I was so sad to read what happened to Mo’Nique as well. It’s hard when your parents dont believe you (mine did not). It’s hard, but parents please just listen to your kids and dont just leave your kids with just anybody. Please
NO HARM- JUST BEING HONEST. VERY COMMON IN RURAL SOUTH
To Ronnie on MAr.5th 2010 – I DONT SEE THE POINT ON U SHARING THAT!!.
YOUR WHOLE FAMILY IS NASTY!!!!!!!
but sadly theres sooooo many like yours
….and to Lost sole Feb.22 & ALL OTHERS WHO EXPERIENCED ABUSE….GOD WILL BE WITH U TO THE END OF UR DAYS….LOOK TO HIM & KEEP UR HEADS UP!!!!!
ALL MY LADIES WE SHUUD LEARN SOMETHIG FROM HEIDI FLIESS…..
LADIES!!!: IF U R BEING SEXUALLY ABUSED……”CHOP HIS PENIS OFFFFFF!!!” then wat can he do!!
Yours truly,realtalk50
Yea I feel bad for her too I was Molested as a child I was only 4 at the time by my cousin and my moms cousin to.my cousin was about 18 years old at the time and I sall him as a brother I still see him but I never confronted him but one day I will,unwed to let him know tat I still remember all the things he did to me and made me do to him.I can’t say I hate him cause I don’t I don’t love or like him eaither.but it is true wat a lot of peaple say “god will punish in time”he married has two children boy and girl and his son is altistic and he worries alot about his daugter no one know why but i do but he suffers a great deal for his kids and wife but I wish his kid and wife would not go to harm cause it should not be them suffering in life it should b him And 4my moms cousin he’s in jail 4rapeing his daugter and i feel very sad for tat to.I was never raped but I was molested 4 about 4years.i am 23years old married and I have 3 children which somtimes I regret bringing to the world but I love my kids and I stopet going to school,work and everything 4myself to b a stay a home mom 4me to raise my kids I am truly sorry to everyone who gone threw this very sorry.I pry every nite to the lord to help every child in the world tat goes threw this and I even pry for the ones who hurt all of us for them to stop and for god to forgive them we have to pry for each other and god will always forgive but let me asure u tat god does have a pit for the and gates of angels for the good so let’s not have no hate cause god will take care of tat 4us thanks for reading oh yes and for REALTALK50 it was not ronnies family being nasty it was TJ’s family.if u read this Ronnie sorry for wat happen to u b a strong person and don’t hate just love and pry for the ones who hurt u cause god he’s real and he loves us
So sorry to realtalk50 I was reading the wrong story I feel like a idiot sorry and mylast comment was to TJ not to Ronnie. Just to tired to read and write it’s 3:36am my apologies
Wow I know some family members are dirty but this is crazy. Some are sicker than others and this includes parents too. A child lies about stealing candy or doing mischevious things not about somebody touching them that makes them feel uncomfortable. I had a similar experience with a family member and couldn’t understand what I had done to have this person touch me like that. This has followed me all my life and now at the age 50+ I’m finally understanding some it. This has affected all my relationships and I couldn’t understand why they never lasted even my marriage. I don’t have any words for your parents cause mine was somewhat the same. My mom did confront the person and I got cussed out for it. I was only nine and I was told in no uncertain terms I was flirting with someones husband. What does a nine year old know about flirting? As you can see this was a grown man that got into my bed and did this, but I was flirting. He should have gone to jail, but my God had a better plan. This man lost his wife, children, home and died from AIDS. It still remains the same with the feelings unless I continue to help myself. Mo’Nique learn to love and forgive but you never have to forget. I hope and pray you find peace with this, because it can eat you up. I Love You Girl, keep your head up and move forward, God got your back!!!!!!!
who gives a flying fuck? She’s still a huge piece of shit that is way too loud and ugly to try to get away with having hairy legs. I find it funny he used candy to lure her fatass into the bathroom. Maybe he really wanted her to clean the bathtub ring that she left when she squeezed her dimply pot-marked ass into the tub? She is a talentless hack.
PARENTS ALWAYS BELIEVE YOUR CHILDREN AND WHAT HAPPEN WILL LEAVE A SCAR MY OWN MOTHER NOT BELIEVING ME WOULD LEAVE PAIN WITH THE SCAR