“I like for a guy to have his own thing going on, to have strong drive and focus—because that motivates me. “You can tell it’s there when you talk to him, but it also shows in the way he carries himself—how he moves around a room. That confidence shows through, that swagger. It’s really intriguing to me, and I need to see this sort of great potential before I even talk to him.”

Check out her tips for Men to stay focus on Love and Life:
1. Concentrate on What’s Inside

“During the first 6 months of getting to know somebody, it’s fun. But even if you want to move fast, you need to pump the brakes every now and then so you can learn about the person behind that cute face. You do that by building a friendship.”

2. Don’t Let Her Consume You

“Even when you’re in a relationship, keep yourself on course. It’s natural to veer off and be consumed by your other half’s world, because love drives you to do that. You’re so happy and all you want is more and more of that person. That’s fine, but never lose sight of your own priorities.”

3. Keep It Simple

“You don’t have to accessorize with big, gaudy chains. Less is more. You can make a much stronger statement with a white T-shirt and jeans. And always have nice shoes—we notice that.”

4. Learn with Lightness

“I like to go out to dinner. I like to go to the movies. These are things that give you the opportunity to learn about a person’s tastes—what they laugh at. That says a lot.”

5. Mind Your Manners

“It’s important for a guy to be a gentleman. I like some toughness, but not too much. He has to take the time to understand who I am. A lot of times, men are like, ‘You’re fun. You’re cute. I like you,’ and I think, Are you listening to what I’m saying? You should get to know me—the things I like and the things I don’t like—’cause I’m doing the same with you.”-

“Those girls were hateful.”

Jones added that :

“I was falling into a depression,after losing Court TV show last year”

On her new man Herb Wilson:

“I want to fall in love again. I’m ready to love 24/7. I want happiness.”

And on her divorce from Al Reynolds, which was finalized in September.

“I’m not in love with him.”

“He’s really loving being Mr. Jennifer Hudson. I think he’s loving the lavish things she brings to his life, he’s seeing the world due to Jennifer’s success.” “[But] can you love this person if they lose all of this tomorrow? She needs to find out. I just hope people are marrying each other for the right reasons.”“It’s a mixed match, it won’t work.” “He’ll be in her shadow like Al Reynolds was to Star Jones, like Stedman Graham is to Oprah.”

“Yeah, we are working on that!” “We have no plans for marriage. We are more married than ever, really.”

Gabriel added:

“I mean, look at her - she is unbelievable! She is the best mom that anybody could ask for—or wish for!”

He concluded by :

“She is on the verge of walking. She is walking with assistance, let’s just put it that way. I had no expectations so everything is a surprise. There is no best part. Everything is amazing!”

“…What Jay and I have is real. It’s not about interviews or getting the right photo op. It’s real.”

“Janet was hoping to resume her tour in an effort not to disappoint her fans,” Saturday’s “However, after arriving in Greensboro, it became evident that she is not fully recovered. A local doctor advised that she not perform tomorrow.”

“There is one particular person in this town that I kind of got a little crush on. A lot of guys got a crush on this girl but she can’t seem to find that me who can get it right and I just want to raise my hand and try,”“And that’s Ms. Jennifer Aniston.”